One heart Dual feeling

One heart dual feelings

Have you ever realized this , that for most of the  things we do day to day we gets confused what we actually want to do.Your mind gets divided into two. Half of your heart says you want that thing and half of your heart denies. 

Firstly let me give you a simple example- when you walk across a pastry shop and you look at a delicious pastry, instantly a part of your mind says its yummy i want to have it,  but half of your mind says move on buddy i am not gonna pay that much for that pastry , and you passes by ,because the later half is more stronger than the first half. Thats a simple example ... 

     
         lets talk about some serious stuffs , like a relation , a relation is one of the most complicated things exist in this world, and most of the time you gets stuck your mind and heart gets divided . half of your heart says you like that person but at same time half of your heart says you don't . The later part generates reasons to prove why  you don't, it says may be that person is not trustworthy,may be that person will betray you,may be that person don't deserves you , and so on , but the first half got no reasons nothing to say nothing to make you believe , it just makes you realize that you want that person at some point , and , well , you are left confused . In that situation you choose to stay quite , cut yourself from that person, and you start piling up the little things you want to say and even if you talk you let your first part to talk and the most talking part of you,the later part stays quit at that time.

       At the end you leave everything on time, you tell, both of your parts, let time decide what you want , because you are not able to decide for yourself. This is the path most of us choose , even i will do the same , but when we'll think of it, we'll realize this path is for  losers . Let you decide what you want not the time , let you decide which of your two parts is stronger , let you decide whether you want that person or you want to move on . As in case of the simple example i gave you earlier , its an easy choice whether to listen the part which is saying that pastry is yummy , have it or listen to the later part which is giving you reasons not to have it , money,quality,taste,place , etc , in this situation the choice you make in few minutes either you leave it or have it , you don't stress yourself ,you are able to know which of the two parts is stronger.

       So in both situations your heart and mind gets divided , in one case you are able to resolve the situation easily and in one you gets stressed  and in the end leaves everything on time.So where is the difference, well the difference is that, you take one  as a simple situation while for other , well you takes it as a tough one, so tough that you are not able to arrive at a solution , a choice , you want to make. So what i believe is that , the day we'll start taking things as  simple , as the situation of pastry we can realize which of the two parts of our heart is stronger and we can come to a solution , a right choice, which we'll choose, not the time.


By - Anuj